These ham tea sandwiches are one of the easiest things you can put on a tea party table and one of the most satisfying. Two slices of good bread, a generous layer of ham and cheese, and the right condiment. Ready in 15 minutes with no cooking required.

A Quick Look at This Recipe
- 📋 Recipe: Ham Tea Sandwiches
- ⏲️ Ready In: 15 minutes
- 👪 Servings: 12 finger sandwiches per version
- 🔪 Difficulty: Easy
- 💭 Top Tip: Butter the bread before adding your condiment and fillings. It keeps the bread from getting soggy and adds a richness that makes even a simple ham sandwich taste more special.
Why You'll Love This Recipe
- Ready in 15 minutes with no cooking required.
- Mix and match ham, cheese and condiment options to suit every guest.
- Perfect for making ahead - assemble the morning of your party and refrigerate until serving.
- Beautiful on a tiered tray alongside scones and other finger sandwiches.
We make them two ways -the classic ham, Swiss and honey mustard that disappears fastest at every party, and a ham, cheddar and apple butter version inspired by our Little Women vintage tea party. Apple butter is a deeply traditional preserve with roots in 19th century New England and paired with thick cut ham and sharp cheddar it is sweet, savoury and a little unexpected. We use our own slow cooker apple butter which is easy to make and keeps beautifully. Prefer a version that isn't sweet, replace the condiment in either version for regular mustard, Dijon mustard, or grainy Dijon for a more savory version.
If you love simple elegant tea party food you might also enjoy our Egg Salad Tea Sandwiches and our Chicken Salad Finger Sandwiches, Food Processor Scones, and Vanilla Shortbread.
Ingredients
Bread and Butter:
- Soft white sandwich bread - classic thin sliced white bread is the right choice. The delicacy of the bread is part of what makes a tea sandwich a tea sandwich.
- Butter, softened - spread on every slice before adding the filling to keep the bread from getting soggy.
Ham:
- Honey ham deli slices - sweet, tender and universally appealing. Two to three slices per sandwich.
- Black forest ham deli slices - a smokier more savoury option. Two to three slices per sandwich.
- Thick cut ham - trimmed to fit the bread at about ⅛ inch thick. More substantial and impressive on the plate.
Cheese:
- Swiss cheese - mild, the classic pairing with honey ham and honey mustard.
- Cheddar cheese - sharp and flavourful, the right match for apple butter or chutney.
Condiment:
- Honey mustard - sweet and tangy, the classic choice.
- Dijon or grainy Dijon - for guests who prefer a more savoury less sweet sandwich.
- Apple butter - sweet, spiced and deeply flavourful. Try our slow cooker apple butter.
- Chutney - a lovely alternative to apple butter. Mango or apple chutney both work beautifully.
- No condiment - great option for children.
How To Make Ham Tea Sandwiches
Classic - Ham, Swiss and Honey Mustard

- Step 1: Butter and spread. Spread a thin layer of softened butter on each slice of bread.

- Step 2: Layer the filling. Layer 2 to 3 slices of honey ham and top with a slice of Swiss cheese. Spread honey mustard on half the buttered slices. Place the remaining buttered slices on top and press gently.

- Step 3: Remove crusts and cut. Remove the crusts with a sharp serrated knife. Cut each sandwich into 3 equal rectangular fingers. Arrange cut side out on a platter so the layers are visible.
Apple Butter - Ham, Cheddar and Apple Butter

- Step 1: Butter and spread. Spread a thin layer of softened butter on each slice of bread. Add slices of sharp cheddar cheese to two of the buttered bread slices.

- Step 2: Layer the filling. Trim the thick cut ham, and add on top of the cheese. Spread the other buttered bread slices with apple butter. Place those slices on top and press gently.

- Step 3: Remove crusts and cut. Remove the crusts with a sharp serrated knife. Cut each sandwich into 3 equal rectangular fingers. Arrange cut side out on a platter
Make Ahead and Storage
Assemble the morning of your party, cover the platter tightly in plastic wrap, and refrigerate until ready to serve. They will stay fresh for several hours. Butter every slice of bread before adding the filling - this is the best defense against soggy sandwiches.
How Many Ham Tea Sandwiches Per Person

Plan for 3 to 5 finger sandwiches per person total across all the varieties you are serving. This recipe makes 12 finger sandwiches per version which is enough for 4 to 6 guests as part of a larger tea party spread.
A Fun Idea for Kids
Ham and cheese with no mustard is a natural kid friendly version of this sandwich. For an extra special touch use a flower or heart shaped cookie cutter to cut the sandwiches into fun shapes instead of fingers. Children love it and it makes a beautiful addition to a party table alongside the classic finger sandwiches.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Honey ham deli slices are the most universally appealing option - sweet, tender, and crowd pleasing. Black forest ham is a smokier more savoury alternative. For a more substantial sandwich use thick cut ham trimmed to fit the bread.
Swiss cheese is the classic pairing with honey ham and honey mustard. Sharp cheddar works beautifully with apple butter or chutney for a more complex flavour combination.
Yes. Assemble the morning of your party, cover the platter tightly in plastic wrap, and refrigerate until serving. They will stay fresh for several hours.
Butter every slice of bread before adding the condiment and filling. The butter creates a barrier that keeps moisture from soaking into the bread. Wrap assembled sandwiches tightly in plastic wrap and refrigerate until serving.
Plan for 3 to 5 finger sandwiches per person total from all the varieties you are serving. This recipe makes 12 finger sandwiches per version which is enough for 4 to 6 guests as part of a larger tea party spread.
Yes and it is especially fun for children. A flower or heart shaped cookie cutter makes a beautiful and festive alternative to the classic rectangular finger.
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Recipe

Ham Tea Sandwiches
Ingredients
- 8 slices white bread
- ¼ cup butter softened
- 4-12 slices ham honey ham, black forest ham, or thick sliced ham
- 4 slices cheese Swiss cheese, cheddar cheese, or sharp cheddar cheese
- 4 teaspoons condiment honey mustard, Dijon mustard, grainy Dijon mustard, apple butter, or chutney
Instructions
- Spread a thin layer of softened butter on each slice of bread. Spread your chosen condiment on half the buttered slices.8 slices white bread, ¼ cup butter, 4 teaspoons condiment
- Layer ham generously on the condiment side. Top with a slice of cheese. Place the remaining buttered bread slices on top and press gently.4-12 slices ham, 4 slices cheese
- Remove the crusts with a sharp serrated knife using a sawing motion. Cut each sandwich into 3 equal rectangular fingers. Arrange cut side out on a platter.
- Serve immediately or cover the platter tightly in plastic wrap and refrigerate for up to a few hours before serving.
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Notes
- Butter every slice of bread before adding the filling to keep the sandwiches from getting soggy.
- Plan for 3 to 5 finger sandwiches per person total from all the varieties you are serving.
- For a kid friendly version skip the condiment and use a flower or heart shaped cookie cutter instead of cutting into fingers.









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